I'm Sorry.

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  1. BuildsByGideon

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    Miner,
    Its not just about wheather or not he will change, just because someone shot you in the arm doesn't mean you can shoot them back. Maybe he was mean, maybe he won't change, that doesn't give you guys a good reason to shoot someone in the arm just because someone else did. No need to be mean because someone else was, be better then him, be nice, give him someone to look up to, be a rollmodel not be mean back

    I hope I made sense :p
     
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    I'm sorry for my previous two comments. @iTzJamison and @BuildsByGideon are right.

    After thinking it over, I've decided that what really matters it that you are truly sorry, @Raccooy. The past is the past, and no one can change that. As long as you put your next step on the better route, you have my forgiveness. You've apologized: now is the time to take action and show us the new you.

    I look forward to seeing your change, and again, sorry for my slander/hurtful comments. I will edit them ASAP.

    ~imSwag__
     
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    What I meant with "prove it" is "actions speak louder than words". Raccooy can say all he wants, but if I don't see it in his behaviour it's just empty words. If he really wants to change, that's great, but I won't believe it until I see him sticking to it. This is what happens when people have lost trust in you. And it takes a lot more effort to rebuild that trust than it does to get rid of that trust.
     
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    Wish you luck! ;)
     
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    Be nice and encourage him, that will make it easier for him to be nicer, being mean just makes him think there is no point
     
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    I do not believe that kuke said anything mean at all. In fact, he was very nice about the situation and is exactly correct. It is also correct that it is much harder to gain trust lost than to lose it, especially when repeated actions cause controversy.
    Only Racc can make the decision to "play nice". It will take quite some effort for him to be able to ignore the flame baiters and haters. I personally believe it is possible for him to succeed in this community if he really wants to.
     
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    I don't need to play nice, but I'm not being mean either. Telling him to show it in his actions instead of words is pretty neutral, I'd say.
     
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    Appol's accepted racbuddy
     
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    Now I feel like an a**hole. I was just blindly following other commenters before me and I completely forgot how nice he was on skype for allowing me to be on his stream (even though I was eventually kicked from the call because I had an echoey mic, it was still nice of him to allow me to be on his stream). You know what, @BuildsByGideon is right. @Raccooy I accept your apology but please don't bait again or cause drama, you are a nice person but try to show it. Thanks.
     
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    Everyone's been saying it, but prove it. Saying you'll change doesn't mean anything. Actually changing how you act is what matters.
    That being said, people don't change overnight, let alone by typing some words on a post online. I hope you can prove me wrong
     
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    I think we've seen plenty of that message.
     
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    I know, so that means I can't say it as well? Nice
     
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    You can. We can say anything we want, you could reiterate it a thousand times, or however long until staff see's it as trolling. I'm just saying, we've seen plenty of it and I think he understands. He knows the reputation he's gained. He knows if he wants to get rid of it he's gonna have to "show it" not just "say it."