So today a player helped me finally figure out why I get so many tpa requests. If you try to type /tpahere <player> but instead type /tpa here <player> the server runs the command as /tpa with no player target. The server will send the request to whoever is first on /list. Since my name starts with "0", thats usually me when I am on. I can wind up getting 10-15 mistaken tpa requests an hour when I am on because of this. So it seems our players would benefit from a friendly reminder to /tpahere <player> NOT /tpa here <player>.
Thanks for reading